I tried to post this earlier but the trigger word must have prevented it ever getting here - so here is the note I added to Lindas post ..
"...well i don't know what just happened, I tried to do an update and got the admin thing about a trig ger word ... NO idea what it was, but will try again .... ---- just looked down and saw the 'g' word so I put spaces in it. This is straight out of her PM in answer to request for suggestions :
"As for ideas, I know they have lost all their Christmas ornaments and decorations. Small things like potholders or things like that would help. Coral is going to decorate with a wine theme in her kitchen. This means so much to them and me. It truly brings tears to my eyes,thinking how great people are in a disaster. G o d Bless you all."
....but since it was in a PM, none of you saw it!!!

TTT